JUNE: (referral picture = white dress) Her mother died, leaving her an orphan. When she arrived to the Toukoul orphanage, she was 4 months old, malnourished, and weighing only 7.7 pounds (3.5 Kg).
She was rehydrated, and basic medical care was provided. One week later, she weighed in at 8.2 pounds (3.7 Kg). Height 61 cm; head circumference 38.5 cm.
Her physical exam is unremarkable, and her blood tests/xrays/cultures are all negative. She has a good appetite, normal sleep cycle, and began laughing out loud. She holds her head steady when pulled to sitting.
JULY: (update picture = pastel/white romper) At 5 months old, she weighs in at 10.1 pounds; height 62cm, head circumference 40cm. She receives her first set of vaccinations. Developmentally, she rolls over from front to back, imitates some speech sounds/razzing sounds, and recognize familiar faces.
SEPT: (update picture = blue/gold dress) at 7 months old, she weighs in at 13.6 pounds; height 64cm, head circumference 42cm. She receives her second set of vaccinations. She's eating more, and has her formula supplemented with spoon feeds. She sits with support and has started to crawl. She transfers objects from hand to hand, babbles and reaches for familiar people.
OCT: (update picture = blue dress with hair bow) At 8 months old, she weighs in at almost 15 pounds; height 66 cm, head circumference 44cm. She's sitting unsupported and crawls.
According to Radu, everything is all set and ready for our Nov 6th court date. All documents have been acquired, and everyone is prepared.
Fingers-crossed that we become her new parents on this day.
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Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Court date postponed: New court date November 6th
So, the court date was postponed. I don't know if it's okay to post lots of info on the issue, so I won't. Wouldn't want anything to jeopardize future court dates...But, apparently this is not all that uncommon...and somewhat expected after court reopens. Reading the yahoo groups, it seems that (not infrequently) the rules change ever so slightly with the new "season" and agencies are forced to make adjustments. Adjustments that may not be entirely understood *until* they reopen. Courts reopened last week...so maybe there just wasn't enough time for those required (new) adjustments to be made?
And because of the backlog (I would imagine)...our next court date isn't until November 6th.
The thing is, though, Radu gave us travel dates, and our US Embassy appointment in Addis Ababa (for which we have to be present) is Monday December 15th. This information was not shared prior to this 10/7 court date though I *specifically* asked multiple times). Radu is 'confident' that everything will be worked out, and 11/6 will yield a passing court experience for our family. Maybe he wasn't so confident about this 10/7 date and therefore didn't provide the travel dates....hmmmm...
Anyway,
as far as prep goes, we're ready to have her here - with all of the (big) basic stuff. I have yet to purchase bottles, formula, and smaller baby items. I figure that once she's here, we'll see what stage she's in (afterall, she'll be 10 months old). Maybe she won't want a bottle? Maybe she'll be ready to try out her legs with standing-type toys. Maybe she'll be barely crawling, and still only drinking a bottle? Babies change so much in their first year of life...to try and anticipate her stage (considering the circumstances) is not the easiest thing to do.
Additionally, we purchased all of the OTC (over the counter) meds for the trip. And Sister has more stuff (we have to take inventory of our supplies soon so we'll know what we've got, and what we still need).
So, a December trip. That's not such a bad thing. Haley won't miss school. Hubby is on winter vacation. It gives us a couple more paychecks to save (and spend). With travel dates this far in advance we can start making plans 2 months out instead of 4 weeks out.
The only (relatively) difficult thing was/is...my work schedule. The good thing is December requests are due today...so I requested the needed time off. BUT, that only leaves a handful of days left that are available for me to work...and because I want a certain number of shifts, I'm really trying to work closely with the scheduler (and the group) so I can get *exactly* the days I need to maximize my ability to work on the days I'm actually available.
But for November, where I have lots of blocked days off (in anticipation of November travel) I'm now trying to pick up a few days. AND, because I totally compressed my schedule (i.e. working lots of days in a row, which is highly atypical for me), I'm trying to switch dates around to allow me more time in between shifts to recover. All of these schedule changes are like asking for *personal favors* and care has to be taken to ask the right person in the right way. This, is probably the most stressful part of the 'limbo.'
Hopefully our November 6th court date will allow us to travel as planned in December. The fact that Radu is confident, and other families didn't pass, helps me refrain from totally freaking out about the possibly that there's something about *us* or *her* that is causing a problem.
Friday, September 12, 2008
Only 3.5 more weeks until court!!
Since court is closed for another few weeks...we're in "wait" mode right now. We've gotten a couple of updates...
When she arrived to Toukoul, she was 4.5 months old, weighed 7.7 pounds, was 61 cm long with a head circumference of 38.5 cm. This was back in June, during a drought. She has big bright eyes, and looked very tiny in her baby seat.
One week later...after being rehydrated and fed well in the orphanage - her weight increased to 8.2 pounds.
August 1st update (5 months old) - she measured in at 10.3 pounds!! grew one cm to a length of 62cm, and her head circumference 40cm. The updated pix showed a baby who appeared noticeably bigger...still with very bright eyes, and a little personality shining thru.
Sept 1st update (6 months old) - she's almost 12 pounds. Her length is unchanged at 62cm; her head circumference is 41cm. Still waiting for updated pix...which I've been told are delayed b/c of the Ethiopian New Year celebration (today).
This child is growing!!!
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On this end, we're pretty much ready. We have the crib. I figured out how to fit 3 carseats across the backseat (yay!!). We have clothing in various sizes (but thinking I'm gonna have to take the newborn stuff back!!). At 12 pounds, looks like she's solidly in 3-6 months now. By mid November when we go get her...she'll likely be in 6-9 month old clothing (and she'll be almost 9 months old). Isn't that wonderful...??!!
Haley and Ian both are aware and excited. We've watched enough "Adoption Stories" on TLC to recite the script. We've networked, and now have multiple people to visit on our trip to Addis. In addition to the medical stuff I'm planning to do...we have friends...who have friends...that live in Addis Ababa!! How cool is that?
So...that's the update. Not much to do on our end...except be patient!! Oct. 7th is just 3.5 weeks away. Hope we pass court the first time...and are cleared to travel in the typical timeframe of 4-5 weeks thereafter.
But I trust that everything will continue unfolding according to the Divine Plan!!
When she arrived to Toukoul, she was 4.5 months old, weighed 7.7 pounds, was 61 cm long with a head circumference of 38.5 cm. This was back in June, during a drought. She has big bright eyes, and looked very tiny in her baby seat.
One week later...after being rehydrated and fed well in the orphanage - her weight increased to 8.2 pounds.
August 1st update (5 months old) - she measured in at 10.3 pounds!! grew one cm to a length of 62cm, and her head circumference 40cm. The updated pix showed a baby who appeared noticeably bigger...still with very bright eyes, and a little personality shining thru.
Sept 1st update (6 months old) - she's almost 12 pounds. Her length is unchanged at 62cm; her head circumference is 41cm. Still waiting for updated pix...which I've been told are delayed b/c of the Ethiopian New Year celebration (today).
This child is growing!!!
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On this end, we're pretty much ready. We have the crib. I figured out how to fit 3 carseats across the backseat (yay!!). We have clothing in various sizes (but thinking I'm gonna have to take the newborn stuff back!!). At 12 pounds, looks like she's solidly in 3-6 months now. By mid November when we go get her...she'll likely be in 6-9 month old clothing (and she'll be almost 9 months old). Isn't that wonderful...??!!
Haley and Ian both are aware and excited. We've watched enough "Adoption Stories" on TLC to recite the script. We've networked, and now have multiple people to visit on our trip to Addis. In addition to the medical stuff I'm planning to do...we have friends...who have friends...that live in Addis Ababa!! How cool is that?
So...that's the update. Not much to do on our end...except be patient!! Oct. 7th is just 3.5 weeks away. Hope we pass court the first time...and are cleared to travel in the typical timeframe of 4-5 weeks thereafter.
But I trust that everything will continue unfolding according to the Divine Plan!!
Friday, August 1, 2008
Update
Got an update about Baby Sister. She's gained 2 pounds...her eyes are super bright...and she's super cute!!!
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UPDATE (9/30/08):
Also, I'm proud to announce that I've successfully put 3 carseats in my backseat! 2 Fisherprices and one Peg Perego. The seatbelt extenders allow the kids to buckle themselves...so all is good. I'm thinking of still going for the clek oto's, however, at some point in the future. Like all the boosters...they seem to tilt too much during acute angle turns. I think a latch *plus* a booster would alleviate this issue. But for now, that project is done.
As for the crib? We got one. Ebay for just over $100 including mattress...brand new. Thanks Grandma and Grandpa for picking that up for us in your "big truck" and driving it up to us!!
So....we're all set. We have clothing, a carseat, and a crib. These items complete our pre-trip baby gear requirements.
The grass is all lush and green, now that the sprinklers are all fixed. The next door neighbor agreed to care for our doggies for the week we're gone. The backyard fence is secure and our doggies better contained. My work schedule has some time blocked off...hopefully it'll coincide with our *actual* travel!! Many of my colleagues know about our upcoming trip and adoption...and I think they'll feel bad if they make it difficult for me to do this 'project.' So I'm hoping that'll extrapolate into encouragement and support if I have to change the schedule...or alter my requested days off.
I've been "de-babyizing" Ian, such that he's not "a baby" anymore. Potty training, walking more and strolling less. Sleeping in his own bed, and taking off his own clothing. I'm also encouraging Haley to be more independent. She's doing her own bathing in the bath or shower. She's getting dressed, undressed, brushing teeth, cleaning up her areas (bedroom, playroom), making her own breakfast (toast, cereal, fruit). I'm really working with them on their interpersonal relations (such as no fighting, sharing, etc.) I can't imagine having them completely dependent, acting like babies, fighting, *with* a new baby coming!!
Plus, I'm completing some tasks that require some research and time...that, if not done now, will likely not be done for months. Such as dental appointments, finding appropriate extracurricular activities for the kids, signing them up....and getting into the routine. Haley has started playing golf with The First Tee, and she started music lessons. Ian, is still 2. He'll have to wait 6 months since almost every (non-mommy and me-type activity) requires the child to be 3 or 3.5 - such as T-ball or soccer.
Donations: we're still hoping for help collecting donations. Once we pass court Haley's school agreed to do a clothing drive of sorts, so that her classmates can play a part in this experience with her. Additionally we have friends who are helping us organize collections for us to take with us. Grandma is going to see if her company, UPS, will send some of the items to Addis Ababa for free (I can only imagine how difficult it'd be trying to hold on to our own luggage, plus two kids, while trying to transport excessive cargo. And with the airlines doing the nickle and dime thing, it'll probably be very expensive to check the boxes as extra "baggage."). But, I will say, after cleaning our home, doing the craigslist thing, and with the help of friends, we do have a few things that I'd be proud to take with us already. Even if we have no additional support in this area, I'm okay taking what we have...
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What's next? Just passing court. Once that's done, we'll be able to plan some of the details of our trip.
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UPDATE (9/30/08):
Also, I'm proud to announce that I've successfully put 3 carseats in my backseat! 2 Fisherprices and one Peg Perego. The seatbelt extenders allow the kids to buckle themselves...so all is good. I'm thinking of still going for the clek oto's, however, at some point in the future. Like all the boosters...they seem to tilt too much during acute angle turns. I think a latch *plus* a booster would alleviate this issue. But for now, that project is done.
As for the crib? We got one. Ebay for just over $100 including mattress...brand new. Thanks Grandma and Grandpa for picking that up for us in your "big truck" and driving it up to us!!
So....we're all set. We have clothing, a carseat, and a crib. These items complete our pre-trip baby gear requirements.
The grass is all lush and green, now that the sprinklers are all fixed. The next door neighbor agreed to care for our doggies for the week we're gone. The backyard fence is secure and our doggies better contained. My work schedule has some time blocked off...hopefully it'll coincide with our *actual* travel!! Many of my colleagues know about our upcoming trip and adoption...and I think they'll feel bad if they make it difficult for me to do this 'project.' So I'm hoping that'll extrapolate into encouragement and support if I have to change the schedule...or alter my requested days off.
I've been "de-babyizing" Ian, such that he's not "a baby" anymore. Potty training, walking more and strolling less. Sleeping in his own bed, and taking off his own clothing. I'm also encouraging Haley to be more independent. She's doing her own bathing in the bath or shower. She's getting dressed, undressed, brushing teeth, cleaning up her areas (bedroom, playroom), making her own breakfast (toast, cereal, fruit). I'm really working with them on their interpersonal relations (such as no fighting, sharing, etc.) I can't imagine having them completely dependent, acting like babies, fighting, *with* a new baby coming!!
Plus, I'm completing some tasks that require some research and time...that, if not done now, will likely not be done for months. Such as dental appointments, finding appropriate extracurricular activities for the kids, signing them up....and getting into the routine. Haley has started playing golf with The First Tee, and she started music lessons. Ian, is still 2. He'll have to wait 6 months since almost every (non-mommy and me-type activity) requires the child to be 3 or 3.5 - such as T-ball or soccer.
Donations: we're still hoping for help collecting donations. Once we pass court Haley's school agreed to do a clothing drive of sorts, so that her classmates can play a part in this experience with her. Additionally we have friends who are helping us organize collections for us to take with us. Grandma is going to see if her company, UPS, will send some of the items to Addis Ababa for free (I can only imagine how difficult it'd be trying to hold on to our own luggage, plus two kids, while trying to transport excessive cargo. And with the airlines doing the nickle and dime thing, it'll probably be very expensive to check the boxes as extra "baggage."). But, I will say, after cleaning our home, doing the craigslist thing, and with the help of friends, we do have a few things that I'd be proud to take with us already. Even if we have no additional support in this area, I'm okay taking what we have...
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What's next? Just passing court. Once that's done, we'll be able to plan some of the details of our trip.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Where is Baby Girl now? Information about Toukoul
From: Ethiopian Orphan ReliefThe Toukoul Orphanages in Addis Ababa are part of the SOS/EE network of orphanages throughout Ethiopia. Toukoul works with the following American adoption agencies:
Adoption Avenues, AFAA and Dove Adoptions.
Toukoul 1 and Toukoul 2 house and care for children from age 0-14, while proposing them for adoption when fitting. 350 children are admitted per year. Currently there's approximately 200 infants in Toukoul 1 and 2 (which is 4x their comfortable capacity). Toukoul 3 houses and cares for children less than 2 years old who are HIV +. Approximately 25 children are cared for each year.
Other SOS/EE programs include a Vocational Training and Production Center for youth over 14 years old (children live in foster families, attend school and receive job training to help bring them financial independence), Aware Program (sponsors children and families, including job training for mothers and Kindergarten for children), Cereal Production Farm (admits youth after Vocational Training), Horticultural Farm (admits youth after Vocational Training) and the Garage (admits youth after Vocational Training).
SOS/EE also includes 18 satellite orphanages around Ethiopia that each house approximately 50 children who are in the process of being admitted to the main Toukoul orphanages in Addis Ababa. Children usually stay in these satellite orphanages for 3-4 weeks before being transferred to Addis Ababa. HIV + children over the age of 2 currently remain in the satellite orphanages, pending completion of the new, larger Toukoul 3.
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From Road to Ethiopia
When Ives and Jaqueline Ferez, two french citizens arrived in Ethiopia in 1983, they witnessed the terrible death of parents and children because of drought and famine. After helping in a catholic orphanage before it was destroyed in a fire, the decided to help the children in their own home but they soon were overwhelmed by the magnitude of the problems affecting the country.
In 1990 they founded Toukoul orphanage, first as a small nursery to take care of 50 kids from 0 to 5 years of age, while slowly expanding to provide care to older children as well.
Today the orphanage is well organized in three different buildings: the main one or Toukoul 1 has two wards. Ward A is where the babies and little children are and it also has a kitchen and infirmary. There is another building, or ward B, where the older children up to 14 years old live, separated in three groups according to their age. Children 7 years and older attend school.
The second building or Toukoul 2 is located at about 500 meters from the main building and is a rented facility that is used to receive children from all over the country. Here the first medical check ups are done and also treatments are given if necessary. If the new child is healthy and doesn’t have any contagious disease, then the boy or girl is moved to Toukoul 1.
The third building or Toukoul 3 is located at approximately 2 km and here is where all the babies HIV positive under 2 years old are located, where they get the care they need and if after a while their condition is reverted, as sometimes happens, they are sent to Toukoul 1 to be adopted.
The orphanage takes very good care of the children, giving them not only food and education, but also lots of love and affection, and everything is precisely scheduled to keep things running smoothly. In Toukoul work nurses, baby sitters (24 hour service for the babies), pediatricians and maintenance personnel. The orphanage is funded by several french associations and other beneficiaries.
If you want to see an aerial view of Toukoul Orphanage these are the coordinates you need to copy in Google Earth:
9° 1′9.21"N
38°48′24.34"E
And the videos are in my sidebar.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Monday, July 14, 2008
Waiting and preparing...
No news yet on the court date, but based on the comment St. Clair left (i.e. that she's with Adoption Avenues, accepted her referrals on June 13th, and just got a court date for October 3rd) it seems unlikley that our court date will come before hers. So I'm betting our court date will be sometime mid October...and baby ready to travel mid November.
Baby is almost 5 months now, and 8 pounds. So, in November she'll be 9 months old...and she'll likely weigh about 11-12 pounds if she gains weight now that she's eating regularly. That means her clothes size is 3-6 months (newborn clothes go up to 8 pounds, 3 months about 12 pounds, 6 months up to 15-16 pounds). So I've purchased some adorable infant clothing in sizes ranging from 3 months - 18 months (mostly 3-6 months and 6-9 months).
We've been busily 'fixing' up our home and creating more space. Haley's like "Mommy, we're getting everything new..." Not quite 'everything', but we *are* trying to complete some long-standing projects...both in preparation for Baby Sister, but also in preparation for a 10-12 day trip away from the house. Such as sprinkler installation, and updating the doggies vaccinations and securing the yard so they don't get out (just in case they start to get restless in our absence).
I've started assembling our medical travel pack.
Ian's wonderful daycare family has graciously 'saved' a spot for Baby Sister (so both kids can be together).
We've recruited at least one other recently adoptive family to hand down their baby daughter's stuff to us rather than simply throw it away.
I've started thinking about what to bring as donations to the orphanage. I wonder if we should bring clothing. I wonder if I could simply pack a box of the kids clothes that no longer fit...and donate those? Would they be offended if I brought used shoes? Should I get something for the adults taking care of the kids?
I think I've selected a travel agency.
I've sent the agency the last check (which was due when the referral is accepted).
I've informed my work that I'll need some time off...'but I'm not sure when exactly.' They were way cool...and said they'd help in whatever way they can. I'm realizing that lots of the partners travel to 3rd world countries and volunteer, or otherwise collect medical supplies and send them to various countries in need.
Hubby informed his work too, but as an employee, he gets FMLA, paternity leave, sick days, vacation, etc...so there was no problem there.
And Sister has gotten all her vaccinations and updated passport. She has notified her job of this planned trip...and is super excited to actually be planning a trip to Africa!!
Basically...we just getting ready...
...and waiting for a court date.
Baby is almost 5 months now, and 8 pounds. So, in November she'll be 9 months old...and she'll likely weigh about 11-12 pounds if she gains weight now that she's eating regularly. That means her clothes size is 3-6 months (newborn clothes go up to 8 pounds, 3 months about 12 pounds, 6 months up to 15-16 pounds). So I've purchased some adorable infant clothing in sizes ranging from 3 months - 18 months (mostly 3-6 months and 6-9 months).
We've been busily 'fixing' up our home and creating more space. Haley's like "Mommy, we're getting everything new..." Not quite 'everything', but we *are* trying to complete some long-standing projects...both in preparation for Baby Sister, but also in preparation for a 10-12 day trip away from the house. Such as sprinkler installation, and updating the doggies vaccinations and securing the yard so they don't get out (just in case they start to get restless in our absence).
I've started assembling our medical travel pack.
Ian's wonderful daycare family has graciously 'saved' a spot for Baby Sister (so both kids can be together).
We've recruited at least one other recently adoptive family to hand down their baby daughter's stuff to us rather than simply throw it away.
I've started thinking about what to bring as donations to the orphanage. I wonder if we should bring clothing. I wonder if I could simply pack a box of the kids clothes that no longer fit...and donate those? Would they be offended if I brought used shoes? Should I get something for the adults taking care of the kids?
I think I've selected a travel agency.
I've sent the agency the last check (which was due when the referral is accepted).
I've informed my work that I'll need some time off...'but I'm not sure when exactly.' They were way cool...and said they'd help in whatever way they can. I'm realizing that lots of the partners travel to 3rd world countries and volunteer, or otherwise collect medical supplies and send them to various countries in need.
Hubby informed his work too, but as an employee, he gets FMLA, paternity leave, sick days, vacation, etc...so there was no problem there.
And Sister has gotten all her vaccinations and updated passport. She has notified her job of this planned trip...and is super excited to actually be planning a trip to Africa!!
Basically...we just getting ready...
...and waiting for a court date.
Monday, June 30, 2008
Thoughts about travel prep
The Sheraton Addis AbabaI just finished reading Christie's blog:
Wow. I'm so happy to hear her honesty. Hearing her story will hopefully help me prepare that much better.
For example...we're pretty sold on staying at theHilton/Sheraton. With her/their experience with power outages, cold water, boredom, and insects....
...Not to mention our personal feelings of safety (like in case of civil unrest, or whatever). Being at a major hotel is safer for foreigners than out in the 'community.' I can't get Hotel Rwanda out of my mind.
I'm certainly bringing just about every piece of medical equipment, treatment, medication, that I can think of...including my otoscope, stethescope, tongue depressors...gloves.
I'm bringing cortisporin otic (antibiotic ear drops), erythromycin (antibacterial eye ointment); hydrogen peroxide (and maybe even laceration repair material). Cold/flu medication, allergy medication, oral antibiotics (to cover pneumonia and other upper respiratory bacterial infections) for us and all children. Nausea medication, good ol' American (full of fat/preservatives/crap) cookies and crackers. I'm bringing lice/scabies medication for everyone. I wonder if I can bring IV hydration stuff?? Hmmm....
...and really, just preparing to be self-sufficient while there (i.e. hire our own drivers); plan our own itinerary (as we do when we plan trips to anywhere). The Amex concierge has been very helpful so far...so we'll certainly utilize this service for this trip.
I'm actually hoping to *convince* someone to go with us...like my sister-in-law :o) - just in case you're reading this!! That way we can leave Haley and Ian at the hotel when we go out to do some of the business stuff. Then me and her can leave Dad and Ian at the hotel while we go out and see a bit more of the City (cuz dad and son are the type who'd rather stay pool-side eating cotton candy watching Direct TV/football on the laptop). We'll have an extra pair of (nurse) hands with us. And any doctor will tell you how very valuable it is to have a good nurse at your side. ;o) - have I convinced you yet Sister?
Wow. I'm so happy to hear her honesty. Hearing her story will hopefully help me prepare that much better.
For example...we're pretty sold on staying at the
...Not to mention our personal feelings of safety (like in case of civil unrest, or whatever). Being at a major hotel is safer for foreigners than out in the 'community.' I can't get Hotel Rwanda out of my mind.
I'm certainly bringing just about every piece of medical equipment, treatment, medication, that I can think of...including my otoscope, stethescope, tongue depressors...gloves.
I'm bringing cortisporin otic (antibiotic ear drops), erythromycin (antibacterial eye ointment); hydrogen peroxide (and maybe even laceration repair material). Cold/flu medication, allergy medication, oral antibiotics (to cover pneumonia and other upper respiratory bacterial infections) for us and all children. Nausea medication, good ol' American (full of fat/preservatives/crap) cookies and crackers. I'm bringing lice/scabies medication for everyone. I wonder if I can bring IV hydration stuff?? Hmmm....
...and really, just preparing to be self-sufficient while there (i.e. hire our own drivers); plan our own itinerary (as we do when we plan trips to anywhere). The Amex concierge has been very helpful so far...so we'll certainly utilize this service for this trip.
I'm actually hoping to *convince* someone to go with us...like my sister-in-law :o) - just in case you're reading this!! That way we can leave Haley and Ian at the hotel when we go out to do some of the business stuff. Then me and her can leave Dad and Ian at the hotel while we go out and see a bit more of the City (cuz dad and son are the type who'd rather stay pool-side eating cotton candy watching Direct TV/football on the laptop). We'll have an extra pair of (nurse) hands with us. And any doctor will tell you how very valuable it is to have a good nurse at your side. ;o) - have I convinced you yet Sister?
Friday, June 27, 2008
Still waiting...
...sometimes I think to myself that perhaps there's a little girl there waiting at the orphanage - just waiting to become eligible for adoption...and when she does, we'll get her referred to us. :o)
Other times, I feel that perhaps we've been forgotten. That little girls have come and gone, and our file is...being overlooked. :o(
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Hubby received his second round of vax (polio cannot be given with MMR - apparently).
Other times, I feel that perhaps we've been forgotten. That little girls have come and gone, and our file is...being overlooked. :o(
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Hubby received his second round of vax (polio cannot be given with MMR - apparently).
Monday, June 16, 2008
The Vax
So...we went today to get our first round of vaccinations.
I got the typhoid and the first Hep A (the typhoid shot is good for 2 years); they think Hep A is good for 6 months, then a booster at 6 months offers lifetime immunity.
Hubby got: Tdap (tetanus, diptheria, and acellular pertussis); Hep A, Hep B (combo shot); typoid; and polio booster; then had MMR titers drawn (Tdap is every 10 years; Hep B is very similar to Hep A in that immunity is adequate after the first shot, but wanes with time so boosters are necessary for a certian portion of the population. In order to "cover" everyone it is recommended that Hep B is done as a series. Most adults only require one polio booster in their lifetime...so it's good for quite awhile).
Haley got typhoid and Hep A.
Since Ian is younger, we decided to hold out a bit longer...
...just in case the newest medical research to be published in tomorrow's medical journal does indeed find an association between vaccines and autism. We want our little guy to be as old as possible...just in case.
So next week, hubby has to get Hep A/B combo number 2, and I'll have to check whether or not me and Haley (and Ian) will need 2 Hep A shots. I think I may get the polio booster if I can't find records of my titer.
Let me tell you...my right shoulder muscle (deltoid) where Hep A shot was given, is very, very sore right now. And Haley (being a bit dramatic) is *really* nursing her little thigh.
And hubby's Tdap site is the most sore....
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We purchased a few more items for "baby sister" this week. A few onesies, a dress, and some PJs.
I got the typhoid and the first Hep A (the typhoid shot is good for 2 years); they think Hep A is good for 6 months, then a booster at 6 months offers lifetime immunity.
Hubby got: Tdap (tetanus, diptheria, and acellular pertussis); Hep A, Hep B (combo shot); typoid; and polio booster; then had MMR titers drawn (Tdap is every 10 years; Hep B is very similar to Hep A in that immunity is adequate after the first shot, but wanes with time so boosters are necessary for a certian portion of the population. In order to "cover" everyone it is recommended that Hep B is done as a series. Most adults only require one polio booster in their lifetime...so it's good for quite awhile).
Haley got typhoid and Hep A.
Since Ian is younger, we decided to hold out a bit longer...
...just in case the newest medical research to be published in tomorrow's medical journal does indeed find an association between vaccines and autism. We want our little guy to be as old as possible...just in case.
So next week, hubby has to get Hep A/B combo number 2, and I'll have to check whether or not me and Haley (and Ian) will need 2 Hep A shots. I think I may get the polio booster if I can't find records of my titer.
Let me tell you...my right shoulder muscle (deltoid) where Hep A shot was given, is very, very sore right now. And Haley (being a bit dramatic) is *really* nursing her little thigh.
And hubby's Tdap site is the most sore....
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We purchased a few more items for "baby sister" this week. A few onesies, a dress, and some PJs.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
No new news...still waiting.
No news yet...
..but congratulations to Alicia on her first referral!! Her timeline, and our timeline are very close. Hopefully our referral will arrive soon.
So far we've purchased a few blankets. We've been saving our money, exploring travel options, and (at this stage) mentally planning for a new baby.
I wonder how old she'll be. I wonder how big she'll be.
Haley is super excited. This weekend past we had the opportunity to meet another great family who recently adopted a little girl from Ethiopia, using our agency. We asked lots of questions, saw photographs and videos, and Haley had the chance to 'play big sister' to a baby girl. I think we've made some new friends....
So we wait. We're not quite ready...
...but we could get ready real quick if need be.
We would love to go to Addis this summer...
..but congratulations to Alicia on her first referral!! Her timeline, and our timeline are very close. Hopefully our referral will arrive soon.
So far we've purchased a few blankets. We've been saving our money, exploring travel options, and (at this stage) mentally planning for a new baby.
I wonder how old she'll be. I wonder how big she'll be.
Haley is super excited. This weekend past we had the opportunity to meet another great family who recently adopted a little girl from Ethiopia, using our agency. We asked lots of questions, saw photographs and videos, and Haley had the chance to 'play big sister' to a baby girl. I think we've made some new friends....
So we wait. We're not quite ready...
...but we could get ready real quick if need be.
We would love to go to Addis this summer...
Monday, April 21, 2008
On it's way to Washington DC for Federal Authentication of the State Seal...
I spoke with Radu, and he received our dossier....reviewed it...okayed it....and sent it to DC today.
The process takes up to 10 days in Secretary of State at the Federal level...then it goes to the Ethiopian Embassy in Washington DC for another sort of authentication (where they authenticate the Great Seal of the USA) - that can take up to 10 days...
...so in 20 days (or less) it heads over to Ethiopia to be translated and incorporated into their "process." After this point...we'd be eligible to receive a referral.
So....forward progress continues as we allow the process to take place.
It feels good that we're all done with 'our part' of this document collection.
But, still, there's tons to do - planning the trip. I have to figure out how to get our 171h to the ?American Embassy in Ethiopia so we can obtain the I600 form to get the visas...so we'll be able to take the child from Ethiopia...and bring her into the USA.
BTW, my mom decided that she wasn't going to go with us.
The process takes up to 10 days in Secretary of State at the Federal level...then it goes to the Ethiopian Embassy in Washington DC for another sort of authentication (where they authenticate the Great Seal of the USA) - that can take up to 10 days...
...so in 20 days (or less) it heads over to Ethiopia to be translated and incorporated into their "process." After this point...we'd be eligible to receive a referral.
So....forward progress continues as we allow the process to take place.
It feels good that we're all done with 'our part' of this document collection.
But, still, there's tons to do - planning the trip. I have to figure out how to get our 171h to the ?American Embassy in Ethiopia so we can obtain the I600 form to get the visas...so we'll be able to take the child from Ethiopia...and bring her into the USA.
BTW, my mom decided that she wasn't going to go with us.
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Shift focus
I spoke with Radu today, and he's out of the office until tomorrow...
...hopefully our Dossier is safe and sound. Hopefully it'll be sent to Washington DC on Monday.
Now thatthat's done we've done all we can do for now, we can shift our focus on the travel.
I always like to start with things that could potentially take a long time...and we have little control over. Such as passports. We all have our passports, except Ian. His application was submitted yesterday. They said it'll take 4-6 weeks...and that should be fine.
My mom and my sister are thinking about going with us. So, as I gather information about vaccinations and travel insurance...I'll share it with them.
I called Kaiser today to begin the travel medical evaluation/vaccination process. Also, I'm trying to figure out if travel health is included in our policy. And whether or not we'll need supplemental travel insurance of some sort...
We'll need to start planning for the care of our 2 doggies while we're gone...and fix our sprinkler system so our grass stays green when we're not here to water it.
I'll need to start thinking about how to schedule my shifts at work as to cause the least amount of disruption...(which hopefully won't be an issue).
And, finally, I'm starting to research (so I can begin gathering) the various medications and treatments we'll need to take with us in an attempt to self-treat many common aliments...and prevent the spread or acquisition of others. There are drugs/treatments for the adults...for the children...for the adoptive child.
Then...after we arrive home...there's still other medical things to do (vaccinations, nutritional status, testing, etc). aye, yai, aye...a bit overwhelming!!
...hopefully our Dossier is safe and sound. Hopefully it'll be sent to Washington DC on Monday.
Now that
I always like to start with things that could potentially take a long time...and we have little control over. Such as passports. We all have our passports, except Ian. His application was submitted yesterday. They said it'll take 4-6 weeks...and that should be fine.
My mom and my sister are thinking about going with us. So, as I gather information about vaccinations and travel insurance...I'll share it with them.
I called Kaiser today to begin the travel medical evaluation/vaccination process. Also, I'm trying to figure out if travel health is included in our policy. And whether or not we'll need supplemental travel insurance of some sort...
We'll need to start planning for the care of our 2 doggies while we're gone...and fix our sprinkler system so our grass stays green when we're not here to water it.
I'll need to start thinking about how to schedule my shifts at work as to cause the least amount of disruption...(which hopefully won't be an issue).
And, finally, I'm starting to research (so I can begin gathering) the various medications and treatments we'll need to take with us in an attempt to self-treat many common aliments...and prevent the spread or acquisition of others. There are drugs/treatments for the adults...for the children...for the adoptive child.
Then...after we arrive home...there's still other medical things to do (vaccinations, nutritional status, testing, etc). aye, yai, aye...a bit overwhelming!!
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
response to the email I sent...
...said our 600A petition was approved on April 2nd (which is huge!!)
Hopefully that means that the actual I171H is "in the mail."
fingerscrossed that it'll come tomorrow.
Hopefully that means that the actual I171H is "in the mail."
fingerscrossed that it'll come tomorrow.
Monday, March 31, 2008
Sent inquiry email...
Still waiting for the I171H form (the approval of the I600A).
I'm starting to get a bit concerned since others in the yahoo group from San Francisco said they received theirs...what was the phrase?..."at the speed of light." Now, light travels quite fast!!
So...I called the number...went thru the automated prompts...finally spoke with a real person...who told me to email them. So I did.
Apparently they have this process for receiving questions.
I hope they didn't opt to not approve us. I hope they didn't lose our fingerprints...or drop our application packet onto the floor...and someone came by and accidentally kicked it under the desk...and now it's covered in dust bunnies and spider webs...
yikes!!
I'm starting to get a bit concerned since others in the yahoo group from San Francisco said they received theirs...what was the phrase?..."at the speed of light." Now, light travels quite fast!!
So...I called the number...went thru the automated prompts...finally spoke with a real person...who told me to email them. So I did.
Apparently they have this process for receiving questions.
I hope they didn't opt to not approve us. I hope they didn't lose our fingerprints...or drop our application packet onto the floor...and someone came by and accidentally kicked it under the desk...and now it's covered in dust bunnies and spider webs...
yikes!!
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Hold off...
The placement agency reviewed the docs I sent....and said everything looked great. (Now, all docs have been reviewed and blessed by our agency...that's all done).
***
I learned that we should wait for our I171H form to arrive, and include that in the packet of documents to take with us to Sacramento. Maybe it has to be authenticated too (but I didn't think so since it's a form that comes from the federal government (immigration)...why would the State authenticate a federal document??)
Nonetheless, it's not like we can get a referral for a child without the I171H form (even if our dossier documents are all authenticated...so there's no harm, or time lost, in waiting to go to Sacto).
So we'll wait for the 171H form...
...then we'll go to Sacto. Some say they received clearance (i.e. the 171H form) in weeks. Hopefully we'll receive ours soon. Hopefully nothing will come up on FBI fingerprinting (like some sort of identity mix-up, or a traffic violation in college....???)
Until then...we wait.
***
I learned that we should wait for our I171H form to arrive, and include that in the packet of documents to take with us to Sacramento. Maybe it has to be authenticated too (but I didn't think so since it's a form that comes from the federal government (immigration)...why would the State authenticate a federal document??)
Nonetheless, it's not like we can get a referral for a child without the I171H form (even if our dossier documents are all authenticated...so there's no harm, or time lost, in waiting to go to Sacto).
So we'll wait for the 171H form...
...then we'll go to Sacto. Some say they received clearance (i.e. the 171H form) in weeks. Hopefully we'll receive ours soon. Hopefully nothing will come up on FBI fingerprinting (like some sort of identity mix-up, or a traffic violation in college....???)
Until then...we wait.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
The reason for the delay with the placement agency's response.
I just received a response from a fellow prospective adoptive parent on the group forum. Apparently the director of the Placement agency, Radu, is in Ethiopia now. So, communication is likely delayed for that reason. It's nice to know that he actually goes over there...and really is involved in making things go smoothly (and sometimes your presence is just absolutely necessary to making this happen).
But, with the lack of communication - I was starting to worry....
...and now I won't as much (for now).
Even still, business must continue...so I hope he's back in the mix soon.
But, with the lack of communication - I was starting to worry....
...and now I won't as much (for now).
Even still, business must continue...so I hope he's back in the mix soon.
2/27 - Waiting for the Placement Agency to review the Homestudy
So, the homestudy was sent to the placement agency on 2/25. The HS agency is closed on Fridays, so business wasn't conducted from 2/22-2/24 (friday to sunday). I expected that the placement agency would have the info on Monday the 25th, review it, and be done with it by Wednesday 2/27 (today). I emailed Radu (informing him of the completed homestudy, etc) on Friday 2/22 - and I'm still waiting for a reply.
I'm hoping that he'll reappear, review the homestudy, and let our HS agency know it's okay...so they can mail it tomorrow. But, they have to notarize everything...and the don't work on Friday. So, maybe Monday.
I'm a bit frustrated that it's taking so long for the placement agency to at least respond...
As for the dossier - pretty much everything is done. Just waiting for the elusive state police clearance letters (oh yeah, the local police letter is not sufficient we were told).
I'm hoping that he'll reappear, review the homestudy, and let our HS agency know it's okay...so they can mail it tomorrow. But, they have to notarize everything...and the don't work on Friday. So, maybe Monday.
I'm a bit frustrated that it's taking so long for the placement agency to at least respond...
As for the dossier - pretty much everything is done. Just waiting for the elusive state police clearance letters (oh yeah, the local police letter is not sufficient we were told).
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
fingerprint for HS agency...delay (2/12)
So now I guess it's the "wait part" of 'hurry up and wait'. I'm still totally psyched that the homestudy is all done...and that we passed. But there is a delay now in the processing of my husbands fingerprints.
After the fingerprints are done...the homestudy can *officially* be completed. Then we get to mail that homestudy to the USCIS...and obtain another set of fingerprints (which may or maynot have a quick turn-round time). After everything is approved...then we're hoping to get our 171-H form.
Nothing else I do to prepare our dossier is time sensitive since the actual rate limiting steps are obtaining the fingerprints (at this point).
Soo....we wait.
In the meantime, I'll go to the bank to get a letter this friday (after payday)...and I think we should make it a point to get our passport pix taken (and the little guy a passport).
I hope William will get the letters of rec signed/notarized by our friends....and the notarized employment letter from his HR. And, it would be nice if his fingerprint issue was resolved quickly.
After the fingerprints are done...the homestudy can *officially* be completed. Then we get to mail that homestudy to the USCIS...and obtain another set of fingerprints (which may or maynot have a quick turn-round time). After everything is approved...then we're hoping to get our 171-H form.
Nothing else I do to prepare our dossier is time sensitive since the actual rate limiting steps are obtaining the fingerprints (at this point).
Soo....we wait.
In the meantime, I'll go to the bank to get a letter this friday (after payday)...and I think we should make it a point to get our passport pix taken (and the little guy a passport).
I hope William will get the letters of rec signed/notarized by our friends....and the notarized employment letter from his HR. And, it would be nice if his fingerprint issue was resolved quickly.
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